Thursday, December 30, 2010

Our family gathering Kl trip

I just back from kl last night..have a lot of fun there with my family members..We knew that this is the first trip for me and mayb a last trip for all of us...so we kinda appreciate the time we pass through together...I miss the trip so much...really..=( our MR. Lao Ji Hui not came back with us ...HE going to take the january intake...so he stay at there to wait till the course reopen..all of us feel so sad ...the last night at summit hotel,we led on the bed and gossip ...miss the time...My tears drop..my heart really she bu de...i know all of our family members sure have the same feeling as me...our friendship~the true friendship..no one will call me just for asked me to go hot hot eat anymore~no chance to let you fetch me and be my driver anymore..no chance to quarrel with you~OMG !i miss the time so much!!!!we gonna to leave each other soon...going to leave miss carol also!!the one always be with me go through my sadness,happiness ,and always support me since i was standard four ~7++ years!!haiyo~all talking sadness thing...well...i hope all my family and friend will have a happy and healthy life in 2011 !!!happy new year!!!^^

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

SPm is over^^

终于考完了,祝全部考生假期愉快
最近,从面子书上知道了有个人为情自杀了,我不想对往生者说出他的不是,但想对有机会看到我这篇文章的朋友们在这里说几句话。。或许爱是什么,我不懂~我不知道为什么有些人会赞成,佩服那些为情自杀的人,你们有想过你们的父母吗?难道这世界的灾难不够多吗?有些人连要活下去的机会都没有,而我们还有资格说我们不幸福,不满意现在吗?没有!!机会是留给我们的,为什么不好好珍惜呢?死,难道真的能解决一切的问题吗?死反而把自己逼上了绝路,只要我们还活着,没有事情是不能解决的。。我也失恋过,也彻彻底底的心痛过,但我也熬过来了,如果当时我选择死,那不是没有现在的我了,过了这难关,看回去,我只无奈的笑笑自己以前的傻~或许把 那次当成是你人生里的一个教训吧,提醒自己以后别再犯同一个错误了。。

你们听过‘宁缺勿滥’和‘宁滥勿缺’吗?想想看你们是哪一种人呢?我呢,可是100%宁缺勿滥的人,所以导致我一直单身的理由,身边出现过,与其说是我拒绝了,不如说是我们并不适合,或许朋友比情人好当得多了。。。每个人都不不停的在寻找他那个对的人,好让自己能得到幸福。。但也有些人因为寂寞难耐而开始寻找不对的人,发展不应该的恋情,最后恋情伤害了双方。。身边也有这样的例子,你害怕寂寞,那我们不害怕吗?老实告诉你,我很害怕。但我知道不应该宁滥勿缺的道理,你呢?你说你爱,你在等她,难道你的等待是这样的吗?不要因为你的寂寞而辜负了别人好吗?换做有天你也变成了她,你会有什么感受呢?恋爱中的恋人啊,好好珍惜咯,不是每个人都能像你们这样幸福着,别把什么事都变成是理说当然,不要尝试玩弄感情,大家都玩不起的~懂吗?

其实写这篇文章不是要针对谁,我啊,只想把自己的感受,感想分享给你们,如果我的文章让你感到不舒服,那请多多包含吧~晚安啦……